May 4, 2021

How Do We Know What Love Is?

Perhaps the three most difficult English words to string together and mean are: “I love you.” But what’s this thing called love that’s so terrifying to reveal.  What Love Isn’t To understand authentic love, the first thing we need to do is to describe what it’s not: Love is not a thing we fall in or out of. How could it be? Fall means to stumble, trip, lose your balance, and tumble

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Articles by Dr. Michael Tobin
Dr. Michael Tobin has been a psychologist for forty-seven years specializing in couple and family therapy. He co-founded a theater company that performed vignettes on family and marital issues, which he co-wrote. These plays were performed over 100 times. He is the co-founder of, an award winning website that focuses on how to solve typical marital and family challenges.